Self-Confidence is a Choice

What does it mean to be self-confident?

“𝘍𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘪𝘵 ‘𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘪𝘵?”⁣ ------------ 𝐓𝐎𝐓𝐀𝐋 𝐁𝐒!

That is NOT how confidence really works.⁣

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I used to fake feelings of self-confidence, and it always 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐝 on me.⁣

I either came across as arrogant or super insecure!⁣ It was weird, I was weird. When you lack confidence in yourself, you have a different vibe about you. It isn't inviting.

⁣Being Self-Confident Means:

Knowing you can handle anything that comes your way. ⁣

Knowing you’ve got your back.⁣

Knowing you don’t actually have to “know” how to do EVERYTHING, but KNOWING that everything is figureoutable (it is a real word, swear!)⁣

Being comfortable in your own skin regardless of what other people think or say about you.⁣

True self-confidence is a feeling that comes from inside. The confidence you have in yourself is generated by the thoughts you think about yourself. The feeling of self-confidence is created by believing a sentence in your head.

Thoughts that create self-confidence in me include, thoughts like:

I know I can figure this out.

Everything will be fine.

I am good enough, just the way I am.

I can do hard things.

I may not be for everyone and that's ok.

⁣If you want to increase your self-confidence, I’d love to help.

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